DO
- Remember that the bride is the most beautiful, fantastic, breath-taking creature you will see at a wedding. Period. Be sure to get a good look at her as she enters and to tell her later just how beautiful, fantastic, breath-taking she is. It’s a truth universally acknowledged.
- Take a look at the groom’s face as his beautiful, fantastic, breath-taking bride approaches.
- Be in the moment and enjoy all the carefully prepared parts of the festivities. Sniff the flower arrangements, admire the church or the city hall, compliment friends or even women you don’t know on outfits you admire (but not in a creepy way) and smile around.
- Say yes when the married couple asks you to join in opening the dance floor.
- Be sure to convey heartfelt thanks to them for the lovely occasion that’s filling your heart and for taking such good care of their guests, whether in person or in a message. An enormous amount of work goes in to preparing a wedding, and a large part of it rests on the bride and groom’s shoulders.
DON’T
- Lose your cool if something is unclear or temporarily goes wrong.
- Forget to say hello or something nice to the best man and maid of honour.
- Diss or criticize. It’s not your place to do so, it’s uncalled for and it’s plain rude. It won’t be appreciated by anyone even if something is not up to your standards. I went to a wedding a few years ago and was surprised to hear a group of people at the next table heatedly axing the reception arrangements. Just no!
- Freak out if your pantyhose rips, there’s a huge bruise on the back of your leg and your dress is cocktail length, you lose your lipstick etc. Everyone will be looking at the bride!
- Underestimate the combination of comfortable in addition to pretty when picking your shoes.
A cool wedding guest (suitably sized) clutch or small handbag includes:
A packet of tissues
A packet of cleaning swipes
Band-Aids
Hairpins
Rubber bands
A pocket mirror
Lip-balm, tinted if you like
Gum
Enough cash for a cab to take you back home
A credit or ATM card
A fully charged phone
All set!
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